He's right though. No 3pm ko's are allowed to be shown here. The place is just too small for a blackout rule and its really not just to protect the big boys but the whole 92 league clubs and a load of non league too.
Thing is most pubs have the dodgy stations from the Far East or US or where ever but it's not legal.
Going back to picking sides, Ipswich and Norwich or decent little teams but if you want to see top flight football then you won't get it regular with them. But if I had to go with one it would be Ipswich. Cambridge are non league at the moment (5th tier), Peterborough isn't far either but they aren't up to much either. Peterborough is on the main east coast train line north by the way (about 2.5 hours to Durham,Sunderland and newcastle and 3.5 hours to edinborough).
Spurs and west ham move to new grounds soon so you should be ok for tickets if you staying in UK for a few years. But if feel you should pick local rather than London, they joy of promotion is something few US sports fans get to enjoy.
....in fact, no ******** it, get the train to Sunderland every week and suffer with the rest of us