Only problem with the jets stepping up to toe the line, is that players get kneed when that happens.........
As for this, I'm not sure I have that big of an issue with it - personally something I wouldn't do or something I would want for my daughter
She's of legal age, there was consent and disclosure (and I believe her on this - although maybe not right away)
I'm sure dressed up at the club she looked plenty adult and it's really an arbitrary line as to what is OK and what isn't ... if she was a college freshman would this be more or less acceptable?
He's not really that old and is still plenty immature and making poor decisions
When I was a freshman I briefly dated a HS senior ..... my brother dated a 17 yr old when he was 20 (which made me nervous as he was in a not so friendly state) - but they ended up dating for close to 3 years
I've seen college freshmen hook up with grad students, graduate assistants, etc
I've seen 30 year olds date college girls
I don't think it's smart - I think you open yourself up to a lot of potential drama and issues, i personally don't think I could hold much of a conversation with a college kid
Overall I would have more of an issue with his decision making than morality
He's in a city with a plethora of insanely good looking women, a lot of which are in his age bracket, a lot of which are very willing and if he tried he could probably find some who are fairly mature and confident in their bedroom abilities and also value discretion (when it moves from being cool to hook up with a celebrity to the understanding that you don't necessarily want to be the one everyone is whispering about at the water cooler)
instead he has a 17 yr old posting pictures of his bedroom and doing the school girl dramatics/look at me thing and will cause himself more headaches
the risk/reward just doesn't line up
so my verdict is: stupid/but not outrageous