While it's not extreme by any stretch of the word, how is what you're saying NOT intolerance and hate?
And I don't think you're an extreme bigot, just misguided on this one particular issue. That's all. Absolutely do NOT think you are evil.
Why is Katie Holmes the saint in all this? Just curious, why is it that Tom Cruise is the bad guy? Or why do people think he's the bad guy and Katie can do no wrong? Interesting question that might relate to how the woman always gets the sympathy in divorce cases.