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When Kelsey Pfendler finally saw the lights of Oahu after more than six weeks alone on the Pacific Ocean, she expected a quiet finish.
Instead, hundreds of people lined the shore at Magic Island while friends, family and more supporters gathered at the Hawaii Yacht Club awaiting her arrival.
“It was beautiful, but it was very overwhelming,” she told the Honolulu Star-Advertiser on Tuesday. “I did not expect that many people.”
At 8:53 p.m. on Friday, after 43 days, 17 hours and 55 minutes at sea, Pfendler pulled her 19-foot rowing boat, Lily, onto the shores of Honolulu, completing a 2,400-mile solo, unsupported journey from Monterey, Calif.
The crossing made the 31-year-old — who turned 32 two days later — the first American woman and youngest woman to row the mid-Pacific solo. The crossing also set the fastest known time for a solo unsupported mid-Pacific row, surpassing the previous overall mark of 52 days, 13 hours and 17 minutes set by British rower Rob Eustace, and the previous women’s mark of 86 days, 10 hours and 5 minutes set by British ocean rower Lia Ditton.
For Pfendler, however, the crossing wasn’t about proving she could survive alone at sea. It was about finding out who she was when there was no one else to rely on.
“I just wanted to know what I could do just by myself,” Pfendler said. “When I didn’t have any other people to have to worry about — when I could just focus on completely doing the thing for me.”
This wasn’t Pfendler’s first Pacific crossing.
In 2024, she captained the four-woman team Hericane Rowing from Monterey, Calif., to Kauai, completing the Pacific crossing in 40 days, 22 hours and 14 minutes.
Halfway through that first expedition, Pfendler said, she was already saddened that it was nearly over. Soon after returning home, she began planning another crossing — this time alone.
“I (immediately) knew I was gonna do another row, but I didn’t have any solid plan,” she said. “I got off and started trying to explore ways to get back on the water as soon as possible.”
She knew no American woman had completed the route solo, and she believed the speed record was within reach. But rowing alone proved far different than crossing the Pacific with three teammates.
“The first couple of nights were scary,” she said. “ The first week, I really didn’t sleep at all.
“I didn’t sleep for more than maybe an hour a day. I was pushing myself super, super hard, and I would take these small, micro deck naps mostly. I would row for 30 to 40 minutes, and then take a 10-minute deck nap, and then row for 30 to 40 minutes, just to try to keep myself moving forward.”
Eventually, she settled into a routine of two-hour sleep intervals, accepting that letting the boat drift was simply part of solo ocean rowing.
Ironically, nights eventually became her favorite time to row.
Without the relentless sun, temperatures cooled, and the darkness brought wildlife around the boat. She spotted dolphins, whales, sharks, and as she neared Oahu, turtles.
Meals were far less memorable, she said.
Living primarily on dehydrated backpacking food, Pfendler developed severe heartburn — something she had never experienced before.
Unconventional path
Unlike many endurance rowers, she never competed in collegiate rowing.
Pfendler, a New York native who lives in Colorado, started instead as a whitewater rafting guide at 18 in upstate New York before working rivers in Colorado and eventually spending a decade guiding trips through the Grand Canyon.
Today, she splits her time between guiding outdoor expeditions and working as a per-diem emergency room technician, picking up overnight hospital shifts to earn extra money.
Every spare dollar, she said, went toward funding the expedition.
“I’m not an independently wealthy person at all,” she said. “I worked nights at the hospital, and I worked my butt off, and I did fundraisers to get everything that I had.”
The project took years to assemble — from buying and preparing the specialized ocean rowing boat to securing sponsorships and training.
“I want people to understand that none of this is totally unattainable,” she said. “Big things take a long time to make happen. If you really want to make something happen, it’s going to take a while, but you can still do it.”
Two days after arriving in Hawaii, Pfendler celebrated her 32nd birthday in stark contrast to the previous six weeks of solitude at sea. Friends and family who had traveled to welcome her gathered at a beach for an impromptu potluck, each bringing a surprise dish to celebrate her return.
Her family, she admits, wasn’t thrilled when she first announced plans for a solo Pacific crossing.
“My friends were stoked for me,” she said. “My family was … not as excited.”
Yet the risks, she says, were always balanced by something larger.
Throughout her life, she looked to women accomplishing extraordinary things as motivation for her own ambitions. Now, she hopes someone else will look at her the same way.
“I have the dream that one day another woman is going to come and try to break my record,” she said. “She’ll have to work even harder, and I get to watch her do that.”
That message resonates beyond the rowing community.
For Sierra Gilner, a 27-year-old Orangetheory Fitness coach and certified personal trainer, Pfendler’s accomplishment represents a broader shift in how women view athletic achievement.
“It’s incredibly inspiring for young women to see another young woman accomplishing something that seems so difficult,” Gilner said. “Watching her, your first thought might be, ‘There’s no way I could ever do that.’ But her message is that you can, with commitment and consistency.”
Gilner said people have been captivated not only by the feat itself but by the courage required to undertake it.
“Taking on a challenge like this, alone, in the open ocean, is something most people can’t even imagine doing,” she said. “That bravery is what draws people in.”
She also sees women’s fitness evolving away from appearance and toward capability.
“I think women’s fitness is becoming more about what our bodies can do than how they look,” she said. “It’s amazing to see women embracing challenges outside the norm, and I think we’re only going to see more women taking on physical challenges that are adventurous, wild and unconventional.”
‘Resilience is messy’
For Pfendler, the crossing wasn’t defined by perfect days or fearless moments.
Instead, she says, it reinforced a lesson she hopes applies far beyond the Pacific Ocean.
“Resilience is always messy,” she said. “You’re never going to feel like you’re doing it well all the time, but being able to get yourself out of it and bounce back is the biggest part.
“Strength is messy. Resilience is messy. It’s not what we think it should look like. But it’s there if you choose it.”
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Instead, hundreds of people lined the shore at Magic Island while friends, family and more supporters gathered at the Hawaii Yacht Club awaiting her arrival.
“It was beautiful, but it was very overwhelming,” she told the Honolulu Star-Advertiser on Tuesday. “I did not expect that many people.”
At 8:53 p.m. on Friday, after 43 days, 17 hours and 55 minutes at sea, Pfendler pulled her 19-foot rowing boat, Lily, onto the shores of Honolulu, completing a 2,400-mile solo, unsupported journey from Monterey, Calif.
The crossing made the 31-year-old — who turned 32 two days later — the first American woman and youngest woman to row the mid-Pacific solo. The crossing also set the fastest known time for a solo unsupported mid-Pacific row, surpassing the previous overall mark of 52 days, 13 hours and 17 minutes set by British rower Rob Eustace, and the previous women’s mark of 86 days, 10 hours and 5 minutes set by British ocean rower Lia Ditton.
For Pfendler, however, the crossing wasn’t about proving she could survive alone at sea. It was about finding out who she was when there was no one else to rely on.
“I just wanted to know what I could do just by myself,” Pfendler said. “When I didn’t have any other people to have to worry about — when I could just focus on completely doing the thing for me.”
This wasn’t Pfendler’s first Pacific crossing.
In 2024, she captained the four-woman team Hericane Rowing from Monterey, Calif., to Kauai, completing the Pacific crossing in 40 days, 22 hours and 14 minutes.
Halfway through that first expedition, Pfendler said, she was already saddened that it was nearly over. Soon after returning home, she began planning another crossing — this time alone.
“I (immediately) knew I was gonna do another row, but I didn’t have any solid plan,” she said. “I got off and started trying to explore ways to get back on the water as soon as possible.”
She knew no American woman had completed the route solo, and she believed the speed record was within reach. But rowing alone proved far different than crossing the Pacific with three teammates.
“The first couple of nights were scary,” she said. “ The first week, I really didn’t sleep at all.
“I didn’t sleep for more than maybe an hour a day. I was pushing myself super, super hard, and I would take these small, micro deck naps mostly. I would row for 30 to 40 minutes, and then take a 10-minute deck nap, and then row for 30 to 40 minutes, just to try to keep myself moving forward.”
Eventually, she settled into a routine of two-hour sleep intervals, accepting that letting the boat drift was simply part of solo ocean rowing.
Ironically, nights eventually became her favorite time to row.
Without the relentless sun, temperatures cooled, and the darkness brought wildlife around the boat. She spotted dolphins, whales, sharks, and as she neared Oahu, turtles.
Meals were far less memorable, she said.
Living primarily on dehydrated backpacking food, Pfendler developed severe heartburn — something she had never experienced before.
Unconventional path
Unlike many endurance rowers, she never competed in collegiate rowing.
Pfendler, a New York native who lives in Colorado, started instead as a whitewater rafting guide at 18 in upstate New York before working rivers in Colorado and eventually spending a decade guiding trips through the Grand Canyon.
Today, she splits her time between guiding outdoor expeditions and working as a per-diem emergency room technician, picking up overnight hospital shifts to earn extra money.
Every spare dollar, she said, went toward funding the expedition.
“I’m not an independently wealthy person at all,” she said. “I worked nights at the hospital, and I worked my butt off, and I did fundraisers to get everything that I had.”
The project took years to assemble — from buying and preparing the specialized ocean rowing boat to securing sponsorships and training.
“I want people to understand that none of this is totally unattainable,” she said. “Big things take a long time to make happen. If you really want to make something happen, it’s going to take a while, but you can still do it.”
Two days after arriving in Hawaii, Pfendler celebrated her 32nd birthday in stark contrast to the previous six weeks of solitude at sea. Friends and family who had traveled to welcome her gathered at a beach for an impromptu potluck, each bringing a surprise dish to celebrate her return.
Her family, she admits, wasn’t thrilled when she first announced plans for a solo Pacific crossing.
“My friends were stoked for me,” she said. “My family was … not as excited.”
Yet the risks, she says, were always balanced by something larger.
Throughout her life, she looked to women accomplishing extraordinary things as motivation for her own ambitions. Now, she hopes someone else will look at her the same way.
“I have the dream that one day another woman is going to come and try to break my record,” she said. “She’ll have to work even harder, and I get to watch her do that.”
That message resonates beyond the rowing community.
For Sierra Gilner, a 27-year-old Orangetheory Fitness coach and certified personal trainer, Pfendler’s accomplishment represents a broader shift in how women view athletic achievement.
“It’s incredibly inspiring for young women to see another young woman accomplishing something that seems so difficult,” Gilner said. “Watching her, your first thought might be, ‘There’s no way I could ever do that.’ But her message is that you can, with commitment and consistency.”
Gilner said people have been captivated not only by the feat itself but by the courage required to undertake it.
“Taking on a challenge like this, alone, in the open ocean, is something most people can’t even imagine doing,” she said. “That bravery is what draws people in.”
She also sees women’s fitness evolving away from appearance and toward capability.
“I think women’s fitness is becoming more about what our bodies can do than how they look,” she said. “It’s amazing to see women embracing challenges outside the norm, and I think we’re only going to see more women taking on physical challenges that are adventurous, wild and unconventional.”
‘Resilience is messy’
For Pfendler, the crossing wasn’t defined by perfect days or fearless moments.
Instead, she says, it reinforced a lesson she hopes applies far beyond the Pacific Ocean.
“Resilience is always messy,” she said. “You’re never going to feel like you’re doing it well all the time, but being able to get yourself out of it and bounce back is the biggest part.
“Strength is messy. Resilience is messy. It’s not what we think it should look like. But it’s there if you choose it.”
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