Last one to post on this thread wins. - Page 51

Brian in Mesa · November 15th, 2004, 09:34 AM

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Originally Posted by azdad1978

Cause someone will ask where's my fiancee...

No we wouldn't have. She was there. We all had a blast without you.

azdad1978 · November 15th, 2004, 09:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Brian in Mesa

No we wouldn't have. She was there. We all had a blast without you.

Brian in Mesa · November 15th, 2004, 09:43 AM

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azdad - Your fiancee should be your best friend. If she isn't, you're setting yourself up for trouble down the road. Your ex should be your ex. While you don't have to hate each other, still calling each other best friends and doing things without your fiancee, etc is way uncool. I understand the complexity of your situation because you and your ex share a child, but that's where that relationship needs to end if you want your new relationship to grow. Put yourself in your fiancee's shoes. Why doesn't she like your ex? Hello? You guys had a history and she's still insecure about that. You wouldn't want to be all buddy buddy with some guy your fiancee slept with would you?

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Ryanwb · November 15th, 2004, 09:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Brian in Mesa

:startofbimrant:

azdad - Your fiancee should be your best friend. If she isn't, you're setting yourself up for trouble down the road. Your ex should be your ex. While you don't have to hate each other, still calling each other best friends and doing things without your fiancee, etc is way uncool. I understand the complexity of your situation because you and your ex share a child, but that's where that relationship needs to end if you want your new relationship to grow. Put yourself in your fiancee's shoes. Why doesn't she like your ex? Hello? You guys had a history and she's still insecure about that. You wouldn't want to be all buddy buddy with some guy your fiancee slept with would you?

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BIM is dead on!!!

FischerKing · November 15th, 2004, 09:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Brian in Mesa

:startofbimrant:

azdad - Your fiancee should be your best friend. If she isn't, you're setting yourself up for trouble down the road. Your ex should be your ex. While you don't have to hate each other, still calling each other best friends and doing things without your fiancee, etc is way uncool. I understand the complexity of your situation because you and your ex share a child, but that's where that relationship needs to end if you want your new relationship to grow. Put yourself in your fiancee's shoes. Why doesn't she like your ex? Hello? You guys had a history and she's still insecure about that. You wouldn't want to be all buddy buddy with some guy your fiancee slept with would you?

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amen brother BIM

shawn

Ryanwb · November 15th, 2004, 09:46 AM

...and pay off those credit cards

azdad1978 · November 15th, 2004, 09:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Brian in Mesa

:startofbimrant:

azdad - Your fiancee should be your best friend. If she isn't, you're setting yourself up for trouble down the road. Your ex should be your ex. While you don't have to hate each other, still calling each other best friends and doing things without your fiancee, etc is way uncool. I understand the complexity of your situation because you and your ex share a child, but that's where that relationship need to end if you want your new relationship to grow. Put yourself in your fiancee's shoes. Why doesn't she like your ex? Hello? You guys had a history and she's still insecure about that. You wouldn't want to be all buddy buddy with some guy your fiancee slept with would you?

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Both woman are my bestfriend. I've known my daughters mom longer than my fiancee but both are a part of my life. My relationship with my ex is just friends, we have both decided that since its much more better to be friends than fighting each other and hurting not us but our daughters feeling. My fiancee was out of town and she knows I'm bringin my daughters mom. I'm just trying not to have any arguement of my hands BIM.