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Ok, I have a semi-serious question for you all, following a (not-so)short story.
Person A moves in with persons B and C. Person C tells person A to start helping out more around the house. Person A starts loading the dishwasher regularly. Persons B and C are very thankful, except for the fact that person A loaded a couple of things wrong so they won't come clean. Person C mentions this to B and asks B to tell A, since A and B are the ones that are actually related. B talks to A, A then starts loading the dishwasher differently. C flips out! Now NO dishes are coming clean. B told A all wrong, since B was at work and telling B over the phone. C corrects B, then B corrects A, telling A that B was mistaken, and re-teaches A how to do this task. A still doesn't get it and still loads it wrong. C gets annoyed and just tries to take care of this chore before A gets a chance to do so. C fell behind due to meeting and such. A, trying to be helpful, fills and runs the dishwasher without being asked. C just opened the washer to find that 75% of the dishes are loaded totally crappily and aren't clean, even though it has been run, WITH soap mind you!
Now, here's the dilemma. Is it better for person C to say something, correcting person A yet again, when A is just trying to be helpful? Or should person C just shut the hell up and re-load/re-wash the dishes and work twice as hard to make sure that there are never any dirty dishes around for A to try to clean?
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I used no names! LOL! This is strictly a hypothetical situation, don'cha know!
lol ok my bad. Show person A the right way to load the dishwasher again and if that doesn't work film the right way to load the dishwasher and if that doesn't work you can always sell the Video to guys who doesn't know how to load the dishwasher. You'll make a killing.
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lol ok my bad. Show person A the right way to load the dishwasher again and if that doesn't work film the right way to load the dishwasher and if that doesn't work you can always sell the Video to guys who doesn't know how to load the dishwasher. You'll make a killing.
So I should tell C to just re-teach A? C just doesn't want to hurt A's feelings. C is a caring person, no matter what a bitch she might sound like at times.
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So I should tell C to just re-teach A? C just doesn't want to hurt A's feelings. C is a caring person, no matter what a bitch she might sound like at times.
Yeah, right. I'm glad thing this is only hypothetical and we're not really talking about you and your bro in law because this person C sounds like a total bitch. Like, the bitchiest bitch that ever bitched. Whew, good thing this is only hypothetical.
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Person C is obviously an obsessive compulsive and Person A is just trying to help out. Which begs the question, why didn't Person C, by pass person B altogether and show A how its all done?
This is turning into an alegbra problem. A + B = C? Ahhh holy crap just say the names. I couldnt even pass pre-algebra ****s Gods sake. Im confused. So was it A that had to P? Or the P that got on C? C I have no idea whats going on. Just snuff em.
So I should tell C to just re-teach A? C just doesn't want to hurt A's feelings. C is a caring person, no matter what a bitch she might sound like at times.
Yeah C should talk to A since they are related, don't want to step on family toes if you know what I'm saying. Poor C ( or is it B? )he's trap in the middle.
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"I'm a football player," says Boldin, "Receiver is something they call me just because they have to put something down on paper."