This doesn't seem like such a good idea anymore.
I gotta eventually let my wife quit getting to me. If you ask her....she's never done anything wrong in here life. If a conflict arises because of something she's done....oh no...can't be her. That's when she turns into a Vietnamese agent of Psychological Torture.
She'll use anything and everything you've ever done or said against you. Humiliation was not beneath her. She'd twist facts up so bad.....the only way out was just to go drink yourself into oblivion.
Have fun with this, Sancho!!
